if a port needs 2.x then set MODPY_VERSION=${MODPY_DEFAULT_VERSION_2}.
This commit doesn't change any versions currently used; it may be that
some ports have MODPY_DEFAULT_VERSION_2 but don't require it, those
should be cleaned up in the course of updating ports where possible.
Python module ports providing py3-* packages should still use
FLAVOR=python3 so that we don't have a mixture of dependencies some
using ${MODPY_FLAVOR} and others not.
switch to the py3 version of sphinx; if i'm not mistaken this avoids
the need to build both python 2 and 3 before building cmake. (this is on
the path to building about a third of the ports tree).
tests done on aarch64 i386 amd64, and some deps, ports-gcc, USE_LLD=no
tested on amd64.
there may be some missing as my unpacked ports source is a little out of date
but this should catch the main things people might run into
the struct was reordered a second time in sysctl.h r1.192 to improve
compatibility but amd64 snapshot packages made it out before that happened
so the bumps are still needed