SO /SO/ , n. 1. (also S.O. ) Abbrev. for Significant Other, almost invariably written abbreviated and pronounced /SO/ by hackers. Used to refer to one's primary relationship, esp. a live-in to whom one is not married. See MOTAS , MOTOS , MOTSS. 2. [techspeak] The Shift Out control character in ASCII (Control-N, 0001110).