patch 9.1.1784: Wayland code can be improved

Problem:  Wayland code can be improved
Solution: Refactor Wayland Clipboard code (Foxe Chen).

This the second attempt to refactor the Wayland code base:
- Move clipboard code from wayland.c to clipboard.c
- Use C99 bool type
- Properly poll the Wayland display file descriptor
- Instead of checking if the data source is not NULL in order to
  determine if a selection event comes from us, use a special mime type
  to identify selection events coming from ourselves. The problem with
  the previous approach is that race conditions may occur.
- Put the focus stealing code under a new feature "wayland_focus_steal"
- Use ELAPSED_* macros instead of gettimeofday()
- Pass tests
- Reimplement commented out code
- Update docs
- Make Wayland clipboard behaviour more in line with X11 when connection
  is lost
- add missing malloc checks and possible memory leaks + refactored some
  tests.

closes: #18324

Signed-off-by: Foxe Chen <chen.foxe@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Christian Brabandt <cb@256bit.org>

src/vim.h

@@ -2364,6 +2364,8 @@ typedef struct
 # ifdef FEAT_GUI_HAIKU
     // No clipboard at the moment. TODO?
 # endif
+    // If we've already warned about missing/unavailable clipboard
+    bool did_warn;
 } Clipboard_T;
 #else
 typedef int Clipboard_T;	// This is required for the prototypes.